Wednesday, September 17, 2008

"He thinks the negative light that's shed on bondage is humorous."

You can't make this shit up:

Hazing offer slap in face for NYU greeks

New York University
Washington Square News

(U-WIRE) NEW YORK — An e-mail sent by a rogue member of the student-run sadomasochism club selling hazing services to New York University fraternities and sororities has left many greeks and administrators fit to be tied.

The Sadomasochism Club's secretary, Zeke, whose last name was not available, sent the controversial e-mail to a list of NYU greeks on Saturday. The e-mail stated that the club was selling its expertise in bondage to greek groups looking to haze new recruits.

"Many of our members have extensive experience and training with interrogation, intimidation and discipline techniques, and are committed to sharing this knowledge with others," the e-mail read in part.

But Vice President Grover Wehman said Zeke's e-mail was a joke that went sour, and that it was sent without the knowledge or approval of other WHAP officials.

"I don't think it's a very funny joke at all," Wehman said. "What we do is ... safe, sane and consensual and hazing is none of that. I do not support the association of bondage with frats and hazing activities."

"I'm very disappointed that a member of our club would send out such content as a representation of our entire club and not as one personal individual," Wehman said. "He was completely joking. I think he thinks the negative light that's shed on bondage is humorous. I don't find it very funny, especially in this case."

Wehman was unaware of the e-mail until contacted by a Washington Square News reporter Monday.

Student greek officials were said they were shocked by the e-mail. Jennifer Ravalli, the outgoing president of the Theta Phi Beta sorority, said the e-mail sickened her and that she immediately sent it to her sorority sisters, as well as Debra Bonaminio, who heads NYU's Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life.

"It was pretty disrespectful," Ravalli said. "As I read the e-mail you could tell he was a little bit more serious than joking. The image of greeks at NYU in general as not been wonderful in the past few years ... and it doesn't help if something like this has ever been sent around."

Ravalli also said her organization and others do not practice any sort of hazing.

"None of us would be comfortable doing that to our new members," Ravalli said. "It's disrespectful. We're all grownups here. We go to college. I'd hope we'd be beyond this by this time."

Bonaminio said NYU has a stringent, zero-tolerance hazing policy, and that her office goes to great lengths to educate greek leaders about the evils of hazing.

"I educate and the office educates on hazing both semesters, what is acceptable and what is unacceptable," Bonaminio said. "A person should not have to do anything that they don't want to do to gain membership [to a greek organization]."

Bonaminio also added that she had not come across any credible evidence of hazing at NYU.

Office of Student Activities Director Robert Butler said he met with Bonaminio on Monday about the e-mail, and Wehman said Butler later met with Zeke and gave him "a stern talking to."

Since Zeke potentially violated the University's hazing policy and its policy prohibiting clubs from selling services to each other, Wehman said Zeke had to write a statement apologizing for the e-mail and taking personal responsibility for its contents.

"As a new club, and a club at NYU, we don't support or encourage that type of activity," Wehman said.

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